Along with an obsession with church growth and numbers, we can thank the Church Growth Movement of the 80s and 90s for introducing to us the importance of having a “church mission statement.”

Today I want to talk to you about how mission statements can be a waste of time, and how mission statements can be worth your time. But first allow me to make a few observations concerning church mission statements.

1. Almost every church has a mission statement these days. This is a relatively new phenomenon.

2. I am always amazed at the amount of time pastors and their boards will invest in coming up with the church mission statement. One pastor recently told me that he and his board had just completed a three-month project developing their mission statement.

3. Despite attempts to come up with something new and catchy most mission statements basically sound the same.

I’m not suggesting that we throw out our mission statements or, if we currently don’t have one, that we don’t bother coming up with one. All I’m suggesting is that mission statements can be a waste of time, if…

1. They serve no purpose other then something to put on our business cards, letterhead, or website.

2. They are way too long for anyone to commit to memory.

3. The words chosen are confusing to normal people and thus require a constant explanation as to what our mission statement means.

On the other hand, mission statements are worth our time, if…

1. They remind us what we are in business for, what we’re “all about.”

2. They help remind the people of our church what we are in business for, what we are “all about.” (Yes, yes I know, we are not a business… you know what I’m getting at.)

So… if you have a mission statement, are coming up with your very first mission statement, or are revisiting or revamping your current mission statement, keep in mind:

1. Keep it as short and sweet and accurate as possible. Make it something easy to remember and repeat.

2. Revisit your mission statement often. Let it be the guiding light by which you program, plan, and preach. Your mission statement (not to be confused with your values, or vision statement) lets you know who you are and who you’re not. Knowing who you’re not, can be as important as knowing who you are.

 

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“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that you will abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. (Romans 15:13)

What a beautiful blessing from Paul. His blessing reflects what most of us need at almost any given time: joy, peace, hope. This does seem to be an appropriate way to bless/pray over those going through difficult times. I know this is how I pray them.

Is there any power released when one “blesses” another as Paul did in verse 13? Or is it nothing more than a prayer, wishing the other person well? Nothing wrong with that.

Priests bless parishioners… and this seems to mean something special for them. Is there anything special if and when I bless someone, is it different than when I pray for them? Some streams of faith end their services with a pastoral benediction or blessing. Does this do any good? Does this mean anything special… it’s nice and all… but can one man impart blessing upon another, or is it the one persons (the one doing the blessing) hope that the other (the one being blessed) will be blessed by God Who can sometimes seem arbitrary in handing out blessings, at least the blessings we want? I know I want to believe there is something to “blessings” even if I cannot prove it.

It does not seem that the power or blessing of God is something we have the power to release at will as if it were matter of snapping one’s fingers. But on the other hand there does seem to be a partnering between God and us to bring power and blessing to others. I think the trouble comes when we teach people that this (the release of God’s power or blessing) can happen like the turning on of the faucet. Still… words of blessing express love and faith so even if nothing happens other than that, giving a blessing has not been a waste of time.

Question: When was the last time you prayed a blessing over someone, or spoke a blessing over someone? Why not look for an opportunity this week to bless someone, maybe even using Paul’s words of blessing from Romans.

 

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In part one of this three-part series entitled Getting and Staying Organized, we discussed some of the basic tools one needs to be organized, such as:

1. a calendar that can sync between all of your computers and phone.

2. phone–alarms

3. a “notes” notebook

4. Post-it notes

5. a quick look into your next day

6. a to-do list

In part two we focused upon one of these six tools, the “notes” notebook. Finally, in part three I want to give you five easy steps to get and stay organized:

1. Brainstorm and come up with a list of everything in your personal life and ministry life that needs organizing.

2. Prioritize that list.

3. Ask yourself, “Are there any tools that I need to get organized?” See part one of this series.

4. Assign dates and times to begin to work on the things on your list.

5. In three months evaluate how well your organization plan is working and make any adjustments as needed.

Getting and staying organized is not rocket science, but it does require certain tools and a specific plan to ensure that we stay on top of the things that we need to stay on top of.

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This article is the second of three on the subject of Getting and Staying Organized. It’s not uncommon for me to run across pastors who are, basically, disorganized. They miss appointments, let important thing slip between the cracks, and are often overwhelmed by what seems to be a life out of control. In part 1 I discussed the need to gather some simple organizational tools. On my list were:

1. a calendar

2. phone alarms

3. a “Notes” notebook

4. Post-it notes

5. looking ahead

6. a to do list

In this article I want to explain in greater detail the “notes” notebook.

First you need to get two notebooks. The first notebook needs to be thought of as a “junk drawer.” You probably have one of those in your home, it’s probably in your kitchen, most junk drawers are. We have one. Ours is completely filled with little odds and ends, no rhyme or reason, just things we toss in there thinking that one day we may need them. I love going through my junk drawer, it’s like a treasure chest, I never know what I’ll find in their.

Instead of jotting down phone numbers, things to remember, the name of that book your friend mentioned over the phone, on separate pieces of paper that end up strewn all over your desk… everything like this goes into one notebook. No more random slips of paper. Everything you jot down can be easily retrieved in one place. Never again will you ask, “Now where did I put that piece of paper.”

Next, you need to get a second notebook. This is not a junk drawer. This is the one place where you keep all of your ideas. I have such a notebook. My notebook is divided into different categories: ministry products I’m thinking of developing, article ideas for my blog and website, book projects, sermon ideas, etc. Once again, not really a junk drawer like notebook number one, but an “ideas” notebook. I have found this to be so helpful. When it’s time for me to write a new blog post, or begin working on a sermon topic for a speaking engagement I might have coming up, all I need do is bring out my notebook and a list of ideas are waiting for me.

If you want to get organized and stay organized one of the best tools is the “notes” notebook.

In part 3 of getting and staying organized, I will walk you through five simple steps to being organized and staying on top of the things you need to be on top of.

 

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More than once I’ve heard people say to me, “I can’t believe how organized you are.” I hope that’s meant as a compliment rather than a sign of neurosis. The truth of the matter is that over the years I’ve gathered simple tools and concepts which keep my busy life, business, and ministry flow relatively smoothly.

This article is the first of three on the subject of getting and staying organized. It’s not uncommon for me to run across pastors who are, basically, disorganized. They miss appointments, let important things slip between the cracks, and are often overwhelmed by what seems to be a life out of control.

The first step in getting your life in control, rather than out of control, organized versus disorganized, is to gather some simple organizational tools. Here’s my list:

1. You need a calendar, preferably an electronic one which you can sync with your home computer, work computer, and smart phone… if you have one. If you have a dumb phone this won’t work. I know this sounds so elementary but it’s not unusual for me to run across a pastor who basically tries to keep everything clear in their mind rather than in a calendar.

2. Set phone alarms. Most phones allow you to set alarms to go off reminding you of events and appointments. I have alarms that go off on my phone 5 min. before every coaching call I’m scheduled to make that day. This is just another way to ensure that I don’t get caught up in some project (like writing blog posts) and forget an appointment.

3. You need to have a “notes” notebook. Instead of scribbling thoughts and notes on scraps of paper piling up all over your desk you put all of those bits of random information in one notebook. I’m going to elaborate on this more in part 2.

4.Post-it Notes. One of the greatest inventions of man from a standpoint of developing organizational skills is the Post-it Note. But the Post-it Note must be posted someplace where you’re guaranteed to see it. Like on your computer monitor, bathroom mirror, door to your office, etc.

5. Each day you must look ahead to see what’s coming the next day. It doesn’t do you any good to have a calendar if you don’t look at it. And in regards to preparing for tomorrow you need to look at tomorrow today. One of the final things I do at the end of my workday is make sure I’m aware of and prepared for tomorrow.

6. “To do list.” Once again, I know this sounds elementary, but the old tried-and-true “to do list” has been a staple of the organized.

In part two I’m going to talk more about the “notes notebook” I mentioned in point number three. And then in part three I will describe 5 simple steps to getting and staying organized. So now I want you to put in your calendar a reoccurring reminder to check in on Facebook for Dave’s: Ldeas that work: Getting and Staying Organized, part two.

Do it, do it now.

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It seems like you can never have enough volunteers. And often times, because of this, the pastor finds him/herself filling in the gaps, which means, doing things they should not have to do, instead of the things they should be doing. Which then, brings us to the subject of: delegation. Whether you’re simply searching for more volunteers to help in the various ministries of your church, or looking for someone to delegate responsibilities that are currently on your shoulders, here are my “1′s, 2′s and 3′s of delegation” that will help you identify potential volunteers.

First, get out your church phone directory, or what ever list you keep that tells you the adults that are currently involved in your church. Count someone as an “adult” beginning at the age of 16.

Look over your list for those people that are already adequately involved in the church. These are the types that are doing their part, and therefore, you would be reluctant to ask them to take on any more responsibility. Write a number 1 next to their name.

Next, look over your list for those people that are currently doing nothing in your church. Every church has these types. You know what I mean, basically they just show up once in a while on Sunday mornings, maybe if you’re lucky they drop a dollar in the offering and that’s about it. Write a number 3 next to their name.

Finally, look over your list for those people that are somewhere in between the #1′s and the #3′ss. These are people that are contributing, or involved in some small way, but the commitment is so little that they could easily take on more without becoming overly committed. For example, you are grateful for the person who stands at the door and hands out the bulletins, but if that is all that they do, they certainly could do more. You appreciate those who pass the offering plates, or baskets, but that is not a very high commitment or time-consuming ministry. Write a number 2 next to their name.

Think of your #2′s and your #3′s as “volunteer ponds” that you can fish in. Over time some of your #2′s will move up to become #1′s. Over time some of your #3′s will move up to become number 2′s. On the other hand, some #2′s and #3′s will never rise above their current status. But you never know.

If you have a very important area of ministry that you want to delegate you obviously don’t want to delegate it to a #2 or a #3. The area that needs to be delegated needs to be delegated to a #1-type of person. But if your #1′s are already adequately committed. You will need to take some responsibilities off of their plates and onto the plates of your #2′s or your #3′s, and therefore free your #1 up so they can take on what you need to delegate.

My 1′s, 2′s, and 3′s of delegation will help you identify who you have to work with in seeking volunteers. There are no guarantees. They may still say no. But at least this is a step in the right direction for spreading ministry responsibility out to a broader base of your congregation and, hopefully, enable you to take some things off of your plate.

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Does your workweek work? By the weekend do you feel weakened?

In my coaching practice I regularly make 2 observations: 1) the pastor’s calendar is too full, and 2) often times the tasks which make up the pastors workweek do not reinforce the vision the pastor has for the church, and as a result, the pastor can find him/herself doing most everything other than pastoring.

In order to have a workweek that works, a workweek that won’t make you weak, you must ask yourself 3 questions:

1) Are the number of hours I’m putting in working for the church sustainable? I don’t believe that 45-50+ hours a week is sustainable. Eventually, somewhere down the road, something is going to break down. It might take years, but eventually one will see the results of 50+ hours a week, especially, if one neglects their days off, vacation time, and quiet times with the Lord.

2) Are the tasks that make up my workweek effective? By effective I mean, are they moving me towards my vision for the church, or away from my vision for the church? Do the tasks that make up my workweek reinforce my call as pastor, or reinforce other things that have little if anything to do with shepherding people?

3) Is my workweek pleasurable? Now I realize that in any job there will be some tasks that you enjoy more than others, and this is certainly true for the pastor. Not everything that makes up your workweek will be enjoyable, pleasurable. But if you are not doing more enjoyable things then unenjoyable things eventually you will burn out. A great exercise for pastors is to look at their workweek, and the tasks which make it up, and identify those things that they draw energy from and those things which take energy from them. You must have more energy-givers then energy-drainers.

When was the last time you seriously looked at how you spend your week? Is your work week sustainable, effective, pleasurable?

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An appraiser came out to “appraise” our house in order to determine its value. She walked around, took pictures and measurements, asked some questions, and left. She’ll go back to her office, search for “comparables”, i.e. what comparable homes in our area are selling for, and then determine the value of the home. It’s not so much value as it is salability, what you could expect someone to be willing to pay for the home. This, in turn, or at least in our case, determines how much money the bank is willing to loan you to cover the purchase price of the home when you’re hoping to refinance your loan. You see… in America we buy things we can’t afford by using someone else’s money and they make money on their money I charging interest. So… we pay money to borrow money which results in paying more money than we originally needed to buy the thing that we didn’t have money for in the first place. When one takes the time to write it all down it really does sound insane, and very well might be. But once again, this is America, and one must own a home, so what are you going to do?

I believe it was my freshman year in college that I worked part-time for an appraiser, Bill Fawcett. That was one of the most enjoyable jobs I ever had prior to entering the ministry.

I am a type of appraiser now. I help pastors appraise their lives and the life of their church. My appraisal of most churches is that they are doing pretty well but could be much more effective with some changes that, typically, they are more than capable of making, relatively easy to implement.

They say, in regards to houses or anything you’re trying to sell, that it doesn’t matter what the owner thinks the house is worth, or even what it genuinely is worth. It only matters what the other person is willing to pay.

The appraiser is more objective than the homeowner. It’s not unusual for the appraiser to come in with a lower value than the owner imagined. One reason for this is that the owner of the home is emotionally attached to the property, thus the owner lacks objectivity. The appraiser, on the other hand, has no emotional attachment to the home and can therefore assess the value objectively.

When was the last time you had an objective assessment of your life or your church? I’m an assessor. I’m a coach. I can help.

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Journal entry: 2.3.12 (Romans 11:1–10)

“… what then is the divine response?”

The only thing that really matters is not so much what we say (prayer), but what God says, the Divine Response. It’s not enough that we “prayed about it” if we don’t come away with the Divine Response. Oftentimes our prayers are nothing more than our subconscious way of trying to get God’s stamp of approval on the thing we really want, or intend to do anyway. Someone says, “I really prayed about it (3 min.) and I’m going to…”

I’m not interested in what you prayed, how you prayed, or how long you prayed, how many people you solicited to join you in prayer. What really matters is the Divine Response. But that usually takes a certain amount of quiet attentiveness which slows us down from what we really want to move forward and do. The heart is deceitfully wicked and we must never underestimate our ability to convince ourselves that what we want is what God wants.

What is the Divine Response? Wait for the Divine Response. “Well I’m not getting anything!”, then wait, wait, and wait some more until the volume is turned up enough to hear the Divine Response. The friends of decisions are “wait” and “listen.”

Question: is there anything you are praying about that you need to wait on until you get the Divine Response?

“… but I kept the matter to myself.”… Daniel 7:28

Journal entry 3.12.12

Daniel had a spectacular dream, spectacular indeed. The ramifications were global, history-altering. He writes it down, but, keeps it to himself. Great wisdom, great restraint. You don’t have to share everything God shows you. Not every dream, vision, “word” has to be told. Some words are from God, but some aren’t. Mary, “… treasured these things in her heart.”

Some things are spoiled through the sharing. Some things need to bake a little longer and that’s where the restraint comes in. Nothing’s worse than a cake doughy in the middle. Wait, restrain, let the timer go off… if it does. Trembling should accompany the words: “God told me…, God showed me…” Think of how disturbed you can be to discover someone says you said something that you didn’t. I wonder if God ever thinks, “Hey…I didn’t say that!”

The scribes made copies of the scriptures with fear and trepidation and that was the written word. It is awesome enough to declare the scriptures… how much more a prophetic word? Speaking on behalf of God, a scary thing, something that carries with it great, great responsibility. Let not many of you become teachers…

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